Making A Difference:
Delaware Chapter of The Tears Foundation

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February, 2018

Stacey Smith
Delaware Chapter Leader
Serving in Honor of AJ

Ashlynn Guptill
Committee Member
Serving in Honor of Grace

Michelle Pennington Committee Member
Serving in Honor of Charlotte, Adelynn, Juliette, & Ava

At Reproductive Associates of Delaware, we celebrate diversity and understand that everyone’s path to parenthood is unique. It is important to know you are not alone. The purpose of the Make a Difference series is to highlight the dedicated organizations and individuals in the community available to help you on your journey.

Our patient community is filled with extraordinary people doing extraordinary things. Recently, members of a local pregnancy loss support group joined together with the mission of helping others going through similar tragedies while also honoring the life of their child. A new non-profit organization was born, the Delaware Chapter of The TEARS Foundation.

We had the opportunity to connect with the organization’s new Committee to learn more about their mission, their first event, and how they are making a difference.

The 2018 Delaware Rock & Walk will take place on April 29th at Caravel Academy.

What is the mission of The Tears Foundation?

The TEARS Foundation seeks to compassionately lift a financial burden from families who have lost a baby by providing funds to assist with the cost of burial or cremation services. We believe that every baby’s life deserves to be honored and memorialized in accordance with the grieving parents’ wishes and are committed to helping bereaved parents with this experience.

When was the Delaware Chapter founded and what inspired the Committee to bring this resource to the First State?

After experiencing the loss of our babies and meeting in a bereavement support group, several Delaware parents decided we wanted to turn our heartache into healing. We all had different experiences in our losses, but what drew us to one another was not only our desire to honor the lives of our babies, but also to show others who might suffer the same loss in the future the same kindness we had been shown by charitable donations received from the community. This mission of “paying it forward” and helping other families with the financial burden that no parent ever expects to encounter planted the seed for what soon would become something greater than us. On a leap of faith and by divine intervention, our group of parents were led to The TEARS Foundation who shares the same mission and vision we had hoped to fulfill. The TEARS Foundation has been a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization for 15 years in many states across the country, and has even begun to serve other countries as well, but has never had a chapter in Delaware. This was the opportunity we had dreamed of and seamlessly, just a few months later in November of 2017, the Delaware Chapter of The TEARS Foundation was founded.

What are some of the resources that the Foundation provides? 

The TEARS Foundation seeks to provide families with funeral financial assistance, emotional support gatherings, memory boxes, peer companions, gifts of encouragement and support, and compassionate advocacy for the community of bereaved families; a community that is all too often silently unnoticed.

Your first event, the Delaware Rock & Walk, is set for April 29th at Caravel Academy. Can you tell us more about this event?

The Rock & Walk is the signature event of The TEARS Foundation; each state that has a chapter holds this event each year. On this day, we will come together as a community to honor and remember all of the precious babies gone too soon. This day of encouragement, support, and hope will begin with the reading of every baby being walked in honor of and is followed by opportunities to walk memorial laps around the track and rock in rocking chairs symbolizing love and support for bereaved families. The event will include a raffle, light refreshments, and many other uplifting activities. This is a family friendly event so there will be activities for children as well. Please join us and register for the 1st Delaware Rock & Walk for Babies by visiting https://www.firstgiving.com/tears/2018delawarerockwalk.

What do you hope to accomplish in 2018 with The Tears Foundation?

Our biggest goal of 2018 is to let families know that there is hope for the future. Since 2018 is our first year in existence in Delaware, we would also like to build awareness of our presence and show the community that we are here to support them. We would like to encourage bereaved families from across the state (and their friends and colleagues) to join us in our mission for advocacy, fundraising, and healing.

What advice do you have for families that are grieving?    

Grief is the most unpredictable force you will ever unwillingly come into contact with. It can tear you down, but it can also ignite a desire within you to make a difference in the world, or even give you a new perspective. Trust the process and know that while there is no reaching the “finish line” in this process, you will grow stronger over time. Allow grief to come as it may, in all of it’s many unrecognizable forms. Acknowledge it. Label it if you can. And always, always remember you are not alone. Through all of the many ups and downs that you will encounter, never forget to speak your baby’s(ies’) name(s), honor their precious life by telling their story, and carry the gift of their memory with you always.

Is there anything we didn’t mention that you feel is important for others to know about your organization? 

We are a growing organization, so we humbly welcome anyone who would like to be a part of our team! If you are interested in becoming a volunTEAR, please email us at delawarechapter@thetearsfoundation.org or find us on Facebook by searching “Delaware Chapter of The TEARS Foundation” and send us a message. We are so grateful for the outpouring of kindness we have already experienced in such a short time and are honored to be able to serve the community in the great state of Delaware.

For more information, visit The Delaware Chapter of The Tears Foundation website: http://thetearsfoundation.org/delaware/

 

Newark Office

4735 Ogletown-Stanton Road
M.A.P. 2, Suite #3217
Newark, DE 19713
Phone: (302) 602-8822
Fax: (302) 623-4241

 

Wilmington Office

Silverside Medical Center
2700 Silverside Road, Suite 2A
Wilmington, DE 19810
Phone: (302) 602-8822
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Eden Hill Medical Center
200 Banning Street, Suite 240
Dover, DE 19904
Phone: (302) 602-8822
Fax: (302) 623-4241

 

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